I am consistently astounded by how much blame one can transfer to another person. (Why? I should know this happens by now. And obviously, quite a bit.) If you repeatedly need to tell yourself that you must forgive another person, then have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe, there is something within yourself that might need to be addressed? To be changed?
Let's not blame one another. Let's take responsibility for our thoughts, our actions, and our inactions.
Let's march on in peace.